rendezvous: bound the wait for a dial, so a dead path is noticed (#51)

A node registers at a relay and waits to be dialled. The wait
had no bound, and ConnectTo() clears the socket timeout on
purpose -- a registration is idle by design and may sit for a
long time.

What that cannot survive is the path dying with neither end
saying so, which is the ordinary case and not the exotic one:
a NAT drops the idle mapping, a relay restarts, a route
changes. No FIN arrives, nothing becomes readable, and recv()
never returns. The thread stays alive and asleep, so
ThreadBtfAccept never reaches the `continue` that would
register again. The node is unreachable and every outward sign
says it is fine.

Caught on the bootstrap seed: 27 minutes without a block,
eight behind the network, relay reachable the whole time, and
a restart fixing it instantly. Nothing in the log marked the
moment it went deaf.

I tried TCP keepalive first and it does not work here. With
probes every 5s and a 2-probe limit, a socket whose replies
were being dropped was still ESTAB after four minutes with the
probe counter stuck at zero. It is measured, not assumed, and
that approach is not in this change.

So the bound is ours to enforce, at the one place that knows
what waiting means. RvServiceWaitPaired takes a timeout;
expiring is not an error but "nobody came, go round again",
which the loop above already handles. Cost is one reconnect
per relay per five minutes.

Verified by killing a registration's path silently -- dropping
only the relay's replies, so no RST or FIN is ever seen. With
a 60s bound for the test:

  rendezvous: no dial at 92.246.128.180:8434 within 60s
              (or it dropped us), re-registering

Registrations went 1 -> 2 and the node carried on. Before this,
the same treatment left it blocked past four minutes with no
log line at all.

The socket goes back to blocking once a dial lands, because
from that point it is a data tunnel and a tunnel is allowed to
sit quiet between messages.

1 files changed, 6 insertions, 1 deletions

diff --git a/src/btfrv.h b/src/btfrv.h
index 9d6756e..9cd7476 100644
--- a/src/btfrv.h
+++ b/src/btfrv.h
@@ -49,7 +49,12 @@ RvSocket RvServiceRegister(const char* relay_host, unsigned short port,
 // Block on a registered service socket until a client is paired to us. Returns
 // false if the relay drops us or errors, in which case the caller should close
 // the socket and register again.
-bool RvServiceWaitPaired(RvSocket s);
+// Blocks until a client is paired with us. Give it a timeout, in seconds, and
+// it returns false once that passes with nobody arriving -- which the caller
+// should treat as "register again", not as an error. Zero means wait forever,
+// which is what this used to do unconditionally and must not be used for a
+// registration socket: see the note on the implementation.
+bool RvServiceWaitPaired(RvSocket s, int nTimeoutSecs = 0);
 
 // ---- client side (the node dialing a .btf address) ----
 // Connect through the relay to the service registered under `target_pubkey`.